Utata uqinisekile ukuba uyakhawuleza - wangena waza wagebenga iintombi zakhe njengamahenyukazi. Kodwa ke kwakhona - unoxanduva lokukhuliswa kwabo, ngoko ke unelungelo kuyo. Bade bajonge nomgca wokuba bangenise intshontsho labo. Amahula afuna uluntu, nawo, kwaye unokubafundisa ukuba baphile kakuhle. Kwaye ndicinga-uphumelele. Ndiyabona ukuba basebenze ngokucokisekileyo ikuku yakhe kwaye bayonwabela xa ebambe imilomo yabo evulekileyo.
Iqhinga elilungileyo lokuchwayitisa kukuzama ukumenzela iyelenqe endaweni yokuthuka umntu odiniweyo okanye umke. Okanye wenze umnikelo ukuba umthandi akanako nje ukwala.