Kuyabonakala ukuba umyeni wayenomfazi wakhe ukuba asebenze kangangokuba wayekulungele ukubeka nawuphi na umngxuma emzimbeni wakhe ukuze aphumle, ngoko ke wafumana ummelwane, awayemtyhola ngamaxesha athile phambi kwakhe. Ngexesha elifanayo akanqandeki ngokupheleleyo, kwaye unikezela kwi-esile, kwaye kuzo zonke ii-slits azicelayo, kuba iqhude lakhe elikhulu lithanda ngokucokisekileyo, ligweba ngokububula kwakhe, nangaphezulu ngokucokisekileyo.
Amantombazana ngamantombazana, athanda ukuxhonywa ngamadike, kwaye inquza kabhuti wakhe, nokuba ngubhuti wakhe, ligatyana nje anokuthi anyakaze ngalo kakuhle.